Ladakhis are known for their cheerful
disposition and most of their festivals fall in winters, which serve
as an excuse for social and convivial gatherings. In summers,
archery competitions and native version of polo are quite common and
especially among the Buddhists, these competitions are often a local
ball where folk songs and dances add to the jovial atmosphere and
'Chang', the local barley beer is amply used. The rich collection of
oral literature of the region is full of occasion-special songs and
poems and includes the localized versions of the Tibetan epic,
'Kesar Saga'.
Traditions & Rituals
The folk musical instruments 'Surna' (oboe) and 'Daman' (drum)
accompany the ceremonies and public events. These instruments
originally introduced into the region by Muslims hailing from
Baltistan but are now exclusively played by 'Mons' (Buddhist
musicians). A newly born child gets a warm welcome full of festivity
and merriment, with functions on his 15th day in the world, after
one month of the birth of a child and his/her first birthday. The
family invites all the friends, relatives and neighbors and serves
them with tea, 'Tsampa' (a local delicacy), butter and sugar.
Weddings in Ladakh are full of music, dance, merriment and feasting.
The boys are generally promised or married at an age of 16 and girls
by the age of 12. The relatives of the groom take 'Chang', tea,
butter and other presents along with the ring to the bride's home.
If the gifts are accepted then marriage takes place a few months
later. On the first day, a grand feast ensues at the bride's house
and on the second day, at the groom's place. After marriage, bride
lives with her husband and her parents offer clothes, animals and
land to the couple as dowry or 'Raqtqaq', depending on their
economic status.
The males are the head of the family and the eldest son has the
right to property of his father, which automatically passes to the
next brother after him. In case, there are no sons in the family,
the father brings in husband of the eldest daughter and property
gets transferred in the daughter's name and passes on to her first
son, after her.
Lamas as Oracles
Lamas are believed to be the messengers between the physical and
the spiritual world and often act as astrologers and oracles
predicting the auspicious time for starting any major enterprise.
However, the monk-oracles of Matho Gompa are the most popular ones.
It is very interesting to witness the feats performed hby these
monk-oracles. Two monks are chosen to act as oracles in every three
years by a traditional procedure and they have to undergo rigorous
routine of prayer and fasting (and perhaps training) to purify
themselves for the cause.
When they finish, deity possess their body at the opportune time ans
the feats, which they perform feats that can awe anyone including
cutting themselves with knives without even wincing and sprinting
along the gompa's (monastery's) topmost parapet as if they are made
of rubber. Whenever possessed, they are believed to answer only the
truth regarding individual and public welfare, though, the deity may
also react with frenzied anger to those who are skeptical and ask
questions only to test the deity.

